When I stopped declining myself & made $20k in a month
I was at the supermarket checkout holding my breath as the card machine flashed 'processing'...
It was taking longer than usual...it's going to decline...fuck...it was my turn to make dinner for my housemates...and I was hungry AF...
The flashing continued...
Approved..and breath Freya
That was a good day...
There were plenty of times when my card declined, I'd tell the checkout attendant "I'll be back in a min I'm just going to grab a different card".... but I never did...I didn't have a different card....I didn't have a stash of money, I didn't have any savings, I had student debt, & a part-time job that paid for my priorities that went something like...drugs, alcohol, short dresses, MiGorang noodles, rent...in that order.
A few dollars was A LOT of money for me...everything was about the money, I'd always be prioritising, scheming, weighing up where it should go, even when I was high & drunk I'd still be thinking about money...
Money on my mind...
But it wasn't a love for money, it was a resentment- where the fuck was it? Why wasn't it showing up for me? Why wasn't I born into a wealthy family?
I legit always felt like I should have been born into money, it felt like I had ordered the wrong financial circumstances...
But the thing was that I wanted it so badly, I hung onto it so tightly, that I could only see what I didn't have...
I couldn't see the other possibilities...I couldn't see that money was all around me...
Just waiting for me to allow it in...
I'm totally aware of how esoteric it seems & sounds, 'just allow it in'....what the fuck does that even mean?...
I get it...
Shit, I studied economics & finance because I wanted to understand the strategies...the tangible principles...
But even when I earned what most would consider good money with a 6 figure salary I still felt like I never had enough...I still got nervous when I'd buy groceries, I'd get this feeling that I only had a limited amount of it & more was hard to make, it was a scares resource...so I needed to be super careful with what I spent my money on...
Yet I was super loose with travel, drugs & designer clothes...because I think this made me feel wealthy...
So I decided to start to shift my perspective...I committed to spending money when I didn't want to, when I felt like a right ass... I decided that whenever I spent money it automatically contributed to my wealth...I focused on the stuff I felt stingy with- paying bills, a gift for a friend, a donation, I focused on feeling abundant & being on the receiving side....
I created a personal policy that when I spend money it comes back 10X...
But I don't hold on tightly, I don't wait for the results, I don't wait for money...
I just trust it's always on it's way to me & will show up in the perfect time...
I surrender...
Fast forward a few years and A LOT has changed for me...I would say I'm living my actualised life, I do what I want, when I want, I'm rarely in distress or freak out mode, I'd say I'm one of the most stable & at peace people I know (yep I'll say it about myself... I definitely still have my moments & small bits & pieces that I'm not 100% satisfied with...
Anyway...
The first month that I brought in over $20,000, you know what the strategy was?...
I didn't have one...well not the type of strategy you might assume...
my strategy was surrender...
It was when I was planning for one of my programs Unshakable (I use the term planning loosely) more like writing whatever comes through me...the main concept was to cultivate faith & surrender, with taking aligned action from the soul...
I tunned more into this myself...
I saw that I still wasn't fully trusting, I was still expecting the money to run out, the flow to stop...So I decided to let go of it, that everytime the thought would come up I just replaced it with I'm always taken care of....I let go of the how, and I just showed as me, I created my art to create the art not for the result of it...
It doesn't mean that I don't ask for the sale, I always ask for the sale...
Give money a door to enter through, the more doors the easier money can present itself.
I see people who are amazing messengers, but I have no idea what they are selling, what is there actual offer?
Make an offer, make it every damn day...
Decide that by other people investing in your products & services it increases their wealth...just like if you invest in anything it increases your wealth...
Decide on your own personal policies that create your reality...
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